The 16 Best Dildos for Riding (2023): Find the Perfect Fit

Whether you're interested in vaginal riding, anal riding, pegging, or else, finding the best dildo for riding can be a difficult task.

There are many options out there, which is a beautiful problem to have but may cause you to feel a bit overwhelmed.

This article will help you turn confusion into pleasure and find the perfect fit by discussing the best dildos for riding.

What Type of Dildo is Best for Riding?

While almost all dildos can be used for riding in some respects, the best dildos for riding include suction cup dildos and hand-free dildo-looking vibrators.

You can also use sex toy mounts to support your dildos for more leisurely riding or have extra fun and a unique experience with sex dolls and sex machines.

All these categories are covered in this article, and after 100-day of testing and trial, we finally settled down with a list of reliable riding toys. 

Let's dive in.

Suction Cup Dildos

Suction cup dildos are dildos that are equipped with a suction cup at their base.

A dildo with a suction cup is the best dildo for riding because it allows users to ride the penis without having to hold it down themselves.

All you have to do is stick it to a clean, smooth, and flat surface like the floor, a chair, or even the shower wall!

Not all suction cup dildos are created equally. Some are not stable enough to ride comfortably or for a long time.

But these suction cup dildos described below are high enough in quality to offer reliable stability.

This is excellent news because it wouldn't be too sexy if your dildo suddenly peeled off the surface, leaving you flat on your face.

1. Vixen Mustang VixSkin: Best Realistic Suction Cup Dildo for Riding & Strap-ons

The Vixen Mustang is a supremely realistic dildo for several reasons.

It's made with a more substantial center and a softer, flesh-like outside.

I suggest dipping it in hot water for around 10 minutes before you want to play because that makes the dildo feel even more realistic.

The warmth mimics the natural blood flow a real penis would have when getting hard.

Additionally, the shaft is veiny and curved, the head is pronounced, and the base is flared — just like a real penis would be.

It's perfect for solo play given its suction capabilities, but there are stronger suction cups out there.

However, you can also attach it to a harness and o-ring for partner pegging, making it a more versatile option.

The tip is soft and might feel too squishy for insertion. Some people like that, but I prefer a head that's a bit firmer for easier insertion.

Pros

• Ultra-realistic look and feel (especially the shaft)
• Suction cup (ideal for personal play)
• Can turn warm to the touch (with hot water)
• Versatile use (suction cup and pegging)
• Four colors to choose from

Cons

• The tip might feel too squishy for some users' preferences
• May be harder to insert given softer head
• Suction cup may not be strong enough for more intense play

2. Avant Pride P3: Best for First-Time Receivers 

The Avant Price P3 dildo is cute, on the smaller side, and overall not as intimidating as some of the other dildos on this list might seem — especially for beginners.

Plus, if you've yet to be penetrated by a toy, there may be some anxiety around what your body can handle not only in terms of size but also in terms of material.

This dildo uses platinum-cured pure silicone that is non-porous, non-toxic, and phthalate-free, so you don't have to worry about allergy or irritation.

Additionally, I've found that it's super easy to wash given its waterproof nature.

And since it's waterproof, you can have fun with it in the shower, the pool, the tub, or whoever else you wish to get wet — pun intended.

The 5-inch (12.7 cm) length is more suitable for beginners than longer dildos, as well as for those who want to enjoy rougher play.

It may also just suit you if you genuinely prefer less intense penetration, beginner or otherwise.

But small doesn't mean powerless. This dildo will successfully hit the G-spot or P-spot with its intentionally curved shaft.

I also found that it is very flexible, so I could be as wild as I wanted to be.

Pros

• Lesbian Pride colors
• Platinum-cured pure silicone
• Harness compatible
• Powerful suction
• Well-curved shaft
• Waterproof
• Smaller size suitable for first-timers

Cons

• Material may feel uncomfortable (especially without lube)
• May be too small for some users' preferences

3. Addiction Luke 7.5": Best For Riding in the Dark

I'm a strong believer that sex doesn't have to be kept in the dark; however, the Addiction Luke 7.5-inch (17.8 cm) dildo makes me think twice about sex-in-the-dark given its sexy and exciting glow-in-the-dark capability.

It's a fun, aesthetically appealing blue marble dildo regardless of the lighting, but in the dark, it shines a bright blue color that's simultaneously exciting and inviting.

The suction cup of this toy is very strong. It will stand stability even on a vertical surface.

This dildo is not just for show, either. It has a veiny texture and a firm shaft that makes it feel somewhat realistic, although not as much as some of the other dildos on this list.

Additionally, its 7.5 inch size can provide enough pleasure for even the most experienced users without feeling overwhelming.

But of course, that will depend on what you like!

Pros

• Glows in the dark
• Phthalate and latex-free
• Realistic texture and feel
• Strong suction base
• Easy to clean
• Affordable

Cons

• Not as realistic as some of its competitors
• Bright blue color is fun, but may not seem "sexy" some users

4. Fun Factory Limba Flex: Best for Comfortable Insertion & Smooth Riding

The Fun Factory Limba Flex is a suction cup dildo that comes in a small 4.5-inch size and a "standard"-sized option.

It's super soft in terms of the penetration process but feels firm enough to elicit all the pleasure you could ask for.

Additionally, the shaft on this dildo is bendable, which means you can bend it accordingly to stimulate either your G-spot or your P-spot for targeted pleasure.

Given that this dildo is easy to insert, customizable, and small in size, I prefer it mainly for anal play, especially if you want to ease into this style of sexual play.

The feel of it is non-realistic, which some users might prefer — especially for anal play. But I'm personally all about feeling like it's the real deal!

Finally, this dildo is also excellent for pack-and-play activity, meaning you can bend it to hide it under your clothes and pull it out when ready!

Pros

• Tapered tip provides comfortable insertion
• Bendable shaft for targeting and customization
• Two size options to choose from
• Small shaft supports introduction to pegging
• Pack-and-play capability

Cons

• Non-realistic texture and feel
• May not fully satisfy more experienced users

5. King Cock Ultra Realistic Dildo with Balls: Best Large Suction Cup Dildo for Ultimate Riding Experience

This long, thick, and strong 8-inch (20.3 cm) suction cup dildo is not for the faint at heart.

I recommend this for more advanced users, as the girth and length will likely hurt a beginner or someone not used to this size.

However, if you've been experimenting with penetration for a while now and want to take it to the next level, the King Cock is a high-quality, highly-realistic dildo that is certainly worth trying.

And for all users, I recommend getting some lube to go with it if you don't already have lube at home.

This cock also has balls, which make it all the more realistic in addition to its veiny look and feel and natural skin color options.

Pros

• Realistic texture and look
• Balls feel good while using
• Highly flexible
• Wide girth
• Two skin tones to choose from
• Affordable

Cons

• Suction cup isn't as strong as competitors
• May take some time to get used to

7. Doc Johnson Bust It Realistic Dildo with Vac-U-Lock: Best Ejaculating Dildo You Should Ride on

The Doc Johnson dildo is similar to the King Cock dildo described above in that it is super realistic, quite large and girthy, has a suction cup base, and has balls at the base as well.

It is 7-inch (17.78 cm) in length and also has two similar realistic flesh-colored options to choose from.

However, it is a bit pricier than the King Cock, likely because it includes a unique and thrilling feature — the ability to "ejaculate".

The "semen" dispenser included allows users to partake in more realistic fantasy play.

It also has a Vac-U-Loc suction plug base, making it compatible with Doc Johnson's Vac-U-Loc attachment system.

This means that it can easily attach to a Vac-U-Loc harness.

Additionally, you don't have to pour only water into the dispenser because that wouldn't be very realistic.

This item comes with nut butter to assist you in making fake ejaculate right from home.

The shaft could be a little softer on this one, as I found it a bit more uncomfortable and irritating than other dildos, given the friction it caused after a while. But for the fake ejaculation experience, I'd still say it's worth a try!

Pros

• Ejaculating feature that feels realistic
• Realistic look
• Two skin tones to choose from
• Relatively affordable

Cons

• Does not pulsate while "ejaculating" as a real penis would
• More difficult to clean than competitors
• Some may find it challenging to fill up the syringe
• Non-realistic feel

Hands-Free Vibe for Riding

Suction cup dildos provide one type of hands-free option, but some of the best dildos for riding don't need suction cups at all, as their main method of pleasure is vibration.

Still, other dildos use both vibration and suction cup methods for the ultimate hands-free riding and grinding experience.

Regardless of which type you choose, getting your hands on a hands-free vibe for riding is not a bad idea, especially for those who love their current vibrator but want one with more versatile use.

1. Evolved Silicone Vibrating Squirting Dildo: Best for Feature-Filled Riding Pleasure 

You want your dildo big and realistic. You want it to have a suction cup for steady grinding.

You also want it to vibrate for increased pleasure. And finally, you want it to squirt into you as a real penis would.

If this sounds like you — and you essentially want it all — this is the dildo for you.

I love that both the vibe and the squirting are easily controlled through two simple buttons.

I also appreciate how easy it is to refill, and this process is even more straightforward than the Doc Johnson one described above.

Ultimately, this is a highly playful and entertaining dildo that is difficult to get bored of, given all you can do with it.

However, this isn't for you if you are a person of color, as Evolved unfortunately only offers this dildo in a "Vanilla" skin tone.

Pros

• Multifunctionality - Suction cup, vibe, squirt, and large size
• Harness compatible
• Rechargeable squirting feature

Cons

• Only one skin color option
• Pricey compared to competitors

2. Velvet Thruster Prime: Best Customizable Thrusting Dildo for riding

If you like the idea of riding your dildo but admittedly don't want to work up a sweat to get to your orgasm, then a trusty thrusting dildo can help you out by doing a lot of the work for you.

The Velvet Thruster Prime is the best thrusting dildo by a mile.

This dildo can perform 3.5" (8.9 cm) of a vibrating thrust, and you can also adjust the thrusting action's speed.

I like starting slow and working up to its highest speed, which is 140 strokes per minute.

Another benefit of the Velvet Thruster is the ability to customer aspects of the dildo to get exactly what you want.

You can choose between a smaller realistic head type, a more prominent realistic type, a beaded one, a lined one, and a curved tip.

Next, you can choose between four different head colors and five different base colors.

Finally, you can choose whether or not to include a detachable suction cup for more stability during your riding adventures.

The only complaint I have is that this toy is a bit heavier, so the suction cup only works on horizontal surfaces. It's not strong enough to support vertical surfaces such as a wall. 

It's pretty expensive, but it may prove worth it, especially if you have difficulty orgasming from more traditional methods and motions.

Pros

• 3.5" Thrusting capability (with six different speeds)
• Customizable head shapes and sizes
• Four different heads and five different base colors to choose from
• Body-safe silicone
• Water-resistant
• Rechargeable battery and long battery life (eight hours)
• One of the best thrusters in the market

Cons

• Suction cup is an additional cost
• Very expensive compared to some competitors

3. Lovense Lush 3: Best for Discreet Play

The Lovense Lush 3 vibrator is not actually a dildo, but I decided to include it on the list because it's just that good.

It's also an excellent choice of toy if you love or are looking to get into discreet public play.

The design of the vibe is intuitive, meant to easily slide in and hug your body so that it stays in place.

It's also a tiny toy, making it easy to hide under your normal everyday clothing.

This is why the Lovense Lush 3 is the best toy for discreet public play.

You can tell your partner to turn it on whenever they please — using an app called Lovense remote — and the vibrator will start going, ever so silently (but not subtly)!

Best of all, only you and your partner will know! Even though this Bluetooth-operated toy results in a vibration that's four times more powerful than other remote control vibrators, the highest sound level is only 43 dB.

This toy is meant to be used on people with vaginas, but, of course, anyone can be on the sending end of this exciting experience.

Pros

• Intuitive design that hugs your body
• Small and discreet
• Very low sound
• Powerful vibration
• Long-distance use
• Durable — does not break easily

Cons

• Not compatible with anal play

4. Universal Thruster Mini: Best for Versatile Riding Experience

This Vac-U-Loc compatible thruster dildo is versatile in its nature.

You can use it alone as a mini thrusting device with a 1.5" (2.54 cm) thrusting action. Or, you can give instead of receive by easily attaching it to a Vac-U-Lock harness.

Additionally, suppose you like the idea of using a dildo you already have by adding this thrusting component.

In that case, you can attach the dildo to this mini thruster for a more extensive, more intense experience — as long as the dildo is Vac-U-Loc compatible as well.

I have a natural-styled dildo that works decently on its own but works exceptionally well when attached to this thruster.

Pros

• 1.5" Thrusting capability (with six different speeds)
• Up to 164 strokes per min
• Vac-U-Loc compatibility (to attach to harness or another dildo)
• Beginner friendly
• Ultra flexible (bends 60 degrees)
• Rechargeable and relatively long battery life (2.5 hours of use after full charge)
• Stable suction base

Cons

• Not realistic on its own
• 1.5" might not be enough of a thrusting range for some users

Sex Mounts

You may already like the idea of using a sex mount for more pleasurable and comfortable positioning during your sexual experience.

Or you might currently just be using a simple pillow for that purpose.

But trust me — Liberator's sex mounts can be your best friend for a hands-free riding experience.

These unique sex mounts allow you to insert your sex toys inside them and then ride your six toys in a mounted position.

The BonBon Sex Toy Mount is my favorite as it has a simple design, five fun colors to choose from, and curves in an upside-down U shape which I personally find the most comfortable for my legs when riding.

The Tula Toy Mount is also an excellent choice for a sex mount, especially since it allows you to hold two sex toys at once in two different pockets.

This is fantastic for either partner play or for solo play, where you want to switch things up as quickly and efficiently as possible.

However, it's not as comfortable for the legs while on top.

Finally, the Wing is a sex mount that is best used for laying down on, instead of straddling with your legs.

This is also a great mount for riding the person lying on top of it.

However, it is still possible to use it for riding with the toy positioned towards the end of the mount.

Sex Machine/Dolls

Sex machines and sex dolls seem like a thing of the past, but they are much more advanced now and equipped for a wide variety of preferences and desires.

They also make it much easier to ride than a dildo alone because you don't have to worry as much about the penis component slipping out or falling out of place.

They are, however, the most expensive options when it comes to the best dildos for riding.

1. The Cowgirl Premium Riding Sex Machine: Best Remote and App Controllable Rider

Whether you've never had an orgasm and are willing to invest in one, or you have had plenty of orgasms but want to try something new and intense, you won't be disappointed y the Cowgirl Premium Sex Machine.

It's a solo machine, but it can be fun to simply sit back and watch your partner enjoy the ride.

Additionally, it has four inches (10.16 cm) of insertion and various speed and pattern options.

It's not waterproof, but you won't need to spice things up in the shower or pool with this impactful machinery.

All in all, this sex machine gets the job done

Pros

• Made with high-quality silicone material
• Works well for any gender
• Remote- and App-controlled
• Smaller than most sex machine, so, easier to store

Cons

• Too loud
• Irritating after a long time
• Not waterproof
• Pricey

2. Pipedream Extreme Realistic Male Sex Doll: Most Entertaining Sex Doll for Riding

Gone are the days of creepy blow-up dolls. It's time to welcome in faceless, nameless, but highly realistic soft plastic dolls instead.

This is a fun and perhaps even comical option to bring into the bedroom for memorable experimentation and exploration.

I especially recommend this to couples who want to experiment with bringing "another person" into the bedroom but aren't comfortable with or willing to risk bringing in a real person.

Pros

• Realistic feel and look of skin
• Includes sex toy cleaner and lube samples
• Large and long dildo size
• Entertaining to have for fun play

Cons

• Heavy and big
• Challenging to store discreetly

How to Ride a Dildo (So That It Doesn’t Hurt!)

Riding a dildo so that it doesn't hurt is all about choosing the right dildo for your specific needs, preferences, experience level, and desired positions.

A dildo might hurt when you ride it because it is too big or isn't shaped well for your vagina or anus.

Start with something small if you're a beginner because you can also get something bigger in the future.

Also, if you don't know what shape you like, getting something flexible and bendable like the Fun Factory Limba Flex is a good idea.

When using a dildo solo, it's helpful to have one that will stay in place, like the Vixen Mustang that has a suction cup.

Or you can use a sex mount, like the BonBon Sex Toy Mount, to help with this as well.

With my partner (cis male), I (cis female) personally love using a strap-on to reverse the roles.

However, I make sure to use a dildo appropriate for his level of experience and comfort. And never forget to use lube!

Ultimately, the best dildo for riding will depend on what you like, and — like most aspects of sex — experimentation is key to figuring out what will get you going!