Best Remote Control Sex Toys for Long Distance Couples ❤ (2019)

by Jane Louis
remote control vibrators

Looking for the perfect gift for your long-distance partner this season?

Want to pick something sexy that could stimulate and even arouse him/her despite the distance?

I was in a long distance relationship for over 3 years. Because of that, my partner and I explored all kinds of ways to keep the intimacy that was taken away because of the distance.

I have to say when it comes to fueling your long distance relationship, interactive sex toys are the best-kept-secret to a perfect virtual sex life. And these app controlled couples sex toy really changed our life. Salute to the ever-evolving technology! 🙂

Don’t know how to select the best sex tool for your LDR lover? Fret not, I will reveal to you all the secrets and remote control sex toys we tried during our LDR time!  Let’s look inside ❤.

WHAT ARE  LONG DISTANCE SEX TOYS?

For those of you who are totally new to this field, in short words, long distance sex toys are vibrators or stimulators that can be connected to an app.

They are also called App controlled sex toy or remote control sex toy. And thanks to the App, the toys can be controlled from anywhere in the world.

It means, while you and your lover are physically not together, your sex toy can give your imagination free rein and you could actually simulate everything from foreplay, orgasms to after play with your partner virtually. This will make you instantly feel at the closest with your partner who is hundreds of or thousands of miles away.

Depending on the brands, some toys would offer extra functions such as syncing the vibration with voice, with music, with erotic audio books and so on. The right kind of sex toys could kill even the longest distance between two lovers in real time. In fact, they are the best go-to solution for an LDR couple to play and stay true to their distant sex life.

So, I must say that when it comes to bridging the uncountable gap between you and your partner, a long distance sex toy is indeed a turn-key solution. This kind of futuristic adult equipment can change the game of sex dramatically – in a good way, of course.

Great, isn’t it? 🙂

While there are too many options to get you spoilt for choices, only the high-end and endorsed materials could make your partners feel more safe, realistic and satisfied.

Here’s a list of all the sex toys that could bring a 360-degree change in your long distance relationship. The list range from clit stimulator to butt plug to penis massager. My partner and I tested all of them. I like some toys more than others, but it is really based on personal preferences.

Feel free to select the one(s) that suit you the best! 🙂

TOP 7 LONG DISTANCE SEX TOYS (ALL TESTED)

1. Lovense Lush 2 (Score: 5/5)

lush 2 remote

Lovense Lush 2 is my all time favorite! This is a powerful and internally wearable egg vibrator that can be used to spice up bedroom sex or public naughtiness.

The toy is made from premium silky silicone – the surface of this toy is super smooth against the skin, which means you won’t feel uncomfortable even if wearing it for hours for naughty public play.

Besides, Lush 2 can be controlled in versatile ways and from anywhere! To achieve long-distance control, you will need to download the free app called “Lovense Remote”, which supports all the mainstream devices, including iPhone, iPadAndroid phone/pad, Mac, and Windows PC.

After connecting your Lush with the app, your partner can tease you or put you on the edge from any distance. For example, he can control the vibrating intensity with some touch on his phone or simply with his voice.

Other than that, it’s also possible to activate the vibration with your favorite songs and change the intensity according to the beats.

What’s more, the vibration from Lush 2 is amazing! It’s strong, rumbly and really travels under the skin. I love the vibration so much that I also use this toy to stimulate my clit and an orgasm is promised when my clit is taken care of by Lush 2.

Lush 2 is my top choice when my partner and I want to do some discreet public play. We both have fantasies about public play. So, we’ve done that for many times, especially when he’s physically far from me.

I have never been caught doing naughty things in public because the noise level from Lush 2 is really subtle even on the maximum vibration (45db). As long as you don’t use the toy in a library, you should be safe to go ;).

✔️Price: Click here to check prices and availability

✔️Rating: 5/5 (Click here to read the detailed Lush 2 review)

✔️For more information about Lush 2 or other LDR toys, click here to access the official Lovense website!

👉🏽Click here to learn more or order LUSH 2! (Official Store)

2. We-vibe Sync (Score: 5/5)

we-vibe sync set

We-Vibe is one of Canada’s largest adult toys’ manufacturer. It is a prestigious company that dedicates to creating innovative vibrator toys. We-vibe created many toys that can be used with distance, but I personally think Sync performs the best among all.

The We-Vibe Sync I am introducing today is an award-winning vibrator for both penetrative sex and solo masturbation.

Besides, it is a dual vibrator that is ergonomically designed to fit any body anatomy thanks to the flexible joints. One amazing thing that differs this toy from Lush 2 is that it can be used to stimulate clitoris and G-spot separately or at the same time!

For LDR couples, you won’t be limited by distance with this dual vibrator. Simply download the free We-Vibe app and pair this toy with yourself and your partner’s phone, all the fun will start!

You can control the vibration and patterns through the app. It also has video and text chat functions. It means you can hear and look at your partners during your intimate time.  That’s why this is just a must-have for long-distance couples.

Sometimes, When my partner is not available, I use Sync by myself and surprise myself by connecting the toy with my favorite songs. Yes, this toy also can vibrate based on the music beats!

Other than that, Sync also comes with a Real-time Touch modeThis mode can make you and your partner feel closer than ever. Every touch acted on the screen can be transferred instantly to the vibrator, at any distance! Which means your partner can keep you turned on at any distance ;).

✔️Price: Click here to check prices and availability

✔️Rating: 5/5 (Click here to read the detailed SYNC review)

✔️For more information about SYNC or other LDR toys, click here to access the official We-vibe website!

👉🏽Click here to learn more or order WE-VIBE SYNC! (Official Store)

3. Vibease (Score: 5/5)

Vibease remote control

Vibease is another truly great toy for long distance couples! This is a toy designed for women to stimulate their clit. You don’t need to do anything else expect from sliding the toy inside of your panty and enjoy.

Vibease is one of the first LDR toys I ordered for myself. I’ve had it for more than 3 years and I still like it.

This is a bullet vibrator. It’s small, light-weighted, cute-looking and vibrates well. Just like Lush 2 and Sync, Vibease also can be controlled remotely and the vibration can sync with music beats and any vocal sounds.

So, what makes it special then? Other than its focus on the clit, this is the only toy that can be synced with erotic books. Vibease created a fantasy e-book shop. You can connect different e-books with your bullet vibe and the intensity of the vibration will vary according to the storyline.

Why I am still keeping this toy after 3 years? Because this company actually cares about updates! Recently, there’s an update that enables this vibe to play a role as an AI lover. It means Vibease now can respond to your needs by vocal cues now and it can learn your patterns and preferences along the time.

How does it feel when I keep Vibease under my panty? Pretty comfortable I have to say, and it gives good clitoral stimulation as well. The material is smooth and soft to touch. So, I tend to forget when I’m wearing it. However, I have to admit that it doesn’t stay super sturdy when wearing this toy, especially during walking.

The vibrations are not too overwhelming and they’re just the right intensity. I think it’s great that the vibration is not super strong, otherwise, it may make my clit feel over-stimulated, especially if I want to wear to while listening to erotic audiobooks.

What’s more, the app also allows you or your partner to choose from a range of vibration patterns or even make your own. It’s very exciting when my partner sends me customized vibration patterns.

Sometimes, my partner sends me a pattern before he goes for a meeting and comes back asking for my “feedback” after. Or sometimes, I get a restraint order that I can’t touch myself until I finish feel his patterns. It drives me crazy this way! Such a sweet agony! 😉

So, get creative with this little cute “monster”. I am sure it will make your LDR life more exciting!

✔️Price: Click here to check prices and availability (Get a special discount with the promo code “HTR” 😉)

✔️Rating: 5/5 (Click here to read the detailed VIBEASE review)

✔️For more information about VIBEASE or other LDR toys, click here to access the official website!

👉🏽Click here to learn more or order VIBEASE (Official Store)

4. Smart Lipstick by Vibease (Score: 4.5/5)

Smart Lipstick by Vibease is a newly launched product from 2019. This is my favorite lipstick vibration!

Why I love this toy? Firstly, this is really a premium-quality lipstick vibrator and the price is really affordable. This toy litterally looks like a real lipstick. I simply have no concerns when keeping it in my purse, even if someone else sees it.

Besides, this vibrator runs on advanced voice-control and Artificial Intelligence to learn about your needs faster than you can imagine. After a few times of use, it really catches my tempo and my preference, which makes the sex process so smooth and relaxing.

Of course, I can always ask my partner to control the vibration for me from any distance. He can do it with his sexy voice or his gentle touch.

But sometimes, he gets really occupied and doesn’t have time to do long-distance play with me. In those cases, I ask him to record his voice or record a song so that I can listen to it while comforting myself.

Other than that, for those really lonely days, I can simply sync my lipstick vibrator with erotic books Vibease provides. I love to do it before sleeping because it guarantees me a very relaxing night.

I admit that the vibration intensity is not super strong, considering its size. But still,  it is as strong as other non-tech lipstick vibrators such as the famous Lelo Mia 2. So, I have no complaints.

The only drawback about this toy is that it does take some time for the AI to learn your patterns. Since there’s no button to press, you need to be a bit patient at the beginning. If you are looking for something unique for your LDR relationship, this can be the toy.

✔️Price: Click here to check prices and availability (Get a special discount with the promo code “HTR” 😉)

✔️Rating: 5/5 (Click here to read the detailed VIBEASE SMART LIPSTICK review)

✔️For more information about VIBEASE or other LDR toys, click here to access the official website!

👉🏽Click here to learn more or order SMART LIPSTICK (Official Store)

5. Hush (Score: 5/5)

lovense hush drawing

Hush is not an ordinary LDR toy, but as a sex toy review blogger, I did expand my range on toys. So, I tried it and I forced my partner to try it haha.

Hush is an innovative vibrating butt plug from Lovense, the Hong Kong-based company that is renowned for manufacturing some of the most popular teledildonics. This is one of the butt plugs, to my opinion. This is the only butt plug I still keep in my bedhead drawer.

As an amateur butt plug user, why do I like Hush? First, this toy provides amazing vibrations. This not only helps to increase my sensation, but it also helps to relax the anal canal. So, it’s a very beginner friendly toy.

There are actually two sizes you can choose from when ordering this toy. One is 1.5 inches (3.8 cm) wide, which is better for beginners and I got this one as well. Another one is 1.75 inches (4.5 cm) wide, which can be a bit more challenging if you’ve never used a butt plug before.

Like all the other LDR toys, Hush works best when being used with the Lovense App. With the app, you can do all kinds of long-distance play with your partner, such as real-time touch, customized vibration patterns, etc. The app also makes the Hush sound activated, and it responds especially well to music, varying intensity with the beats.

So, for some of you who ventures new experience, Hush is one of the best remote control butt plugs of its type that money can buy.

✔️Price: Click here to check prices and availability

✔️Rating: 5/5 (Click here to read the detailed Lush 2 review)

✔️For more information about HUSH or other LDR toys, click here to access the official Lovense website!

👉🏽Click here to learn more or order HUSH (Official Store)


The following are some interesting couple sets my partner and I used. To be honest, I think female toys in general works better than male masturbators.

The reason I recommend the following two sets is that there’s dual interaction from these two sets. What does that mean? It means when the female thrusting the vibrator in the vagina, the male toy will react! It will contract and provide a suction feeling for the penis. And vice versa.

I think this is quite amazing because one key reason I use LDR sex toys is to increase intimacy. The dual reaction function really makes me and my partner feel close to each other despite the distance.

So, let’s dig a bit more on the two couple sets: 1) Max & Nora and 2) Onyx 2 & Pearl 2 

6. Lovense Max and Nora (Couple Set) (Score: 4/5)

LOVENSE MAX NORA

Max and Nora are the best long-distance couple toy set developed by Lovense. Max is the male masturbator while Nora is the female stimulator. Both of the toys can be controlled with ease from a distance ensuring the couple can achieve orgasm at the same time without even being in the same room.

Design & Look. Nora is made of smooth medical-grade silicone and a length of about 5 inches (12.7 cm) which can be inserted. It is has a curved head for G spot stimulation and a flexible clitoris arm which allows both internal and external stimulation. Nora arouses the female by a vibrating and rotating G-spot arm while stimulating the clit.

The stimulation is so intense that it sometimes can surpass the sensation from a real penis. Similarly, the stimulation from Max is also quite realistic. Max has a skin sleeve which stimulates the penis through vibration and contraction for more pleasure and stimulated sex. Max makes use of air pump technology which creates a mild, deep and subtle stimulation.

Long Distance Control. Max and Nora can be paired with the “Lovense Remote” app. After connecting, you and your partner can choose different features separately for Nora and Max, which include: vibration patterns, intensities, rotation (for Nora), the strength of the air pump (for Max),  sync vibration with any vocal sounds or songs, etc.

As mentioned at the beginning, it’s also possible to do dual-reaction when you and your partner use the set at the same time. For example, when your partner is masturbating with Max, the Nora will react with rumbly vibration. This surely allows partners to maintain some level of intimacy even in long distance relationships.

I enjoyed Nora quite a lot. My partner did enjoy the soft texture from Max, but he found it’s not that easy to clean the machine after each use and he needed to use a generous amount of lube in order to start feeling good.

✔️Price: Click here to check prices and availability

✔️For more information about NORA & MAX or other LDR toys, click here to access the official Lovense website!

👉🏽Click here to learn more or order NORA & MAX (Official Store)

7. Kiiroo Onyx 2 and Pearl 2 (Couple Set) (Score: 3.5/5)

ONYX 2 PEARL 2

Kiiroo Onyx 2 and Pearl 2 are another popular couple set. Onyx 2 is a handheld automatic masturbator which is used by the male partner in long-distance sex. This toy provides many different sensations which can be synchronized with online contents from FeelMe.com. The previous Onyx had this capability as well but the new make contains much more for your viewing pleasure and is also compatible with video chatting.

❤ Design & Look. The Onyx 2 is made with a flashlight skin which is a lifelike masturbatory sleeve. This toy has 10 rings which contract and it supposes to stimulate the feeling of sex.

Pearl 2 is G-spot vibrator that can leave your panting thanks to its strong and rumbly vibration. Instead of clicking on buttons to activate this toy, Pearl 2 has touch-sensitive vibrations, which makes it ultra smooth to adjust and it’s perfectly modeled to stimulate all your hot spots for maximum pleasure.

Long Distance Control. The two toys can be connected using the FeelConnect app to start having long distance sex. Both Onyx 2 and Pearl 2 can be activated by your lover, webcam stars, tactile videos, and VR. Both my partner and I are fine with watching erotic movies, that’s why none of us were offended when getting this toy. 

But if you don’t encourage your man to masturbate with erotic movies, this is a good set for you then.

Anyhow, go back to the interactive functions this set has. So, when connected, Onyx 2 will send a signal to pearl 2 to complete a two-way natural experience between partners. The toy mimics your partner’s movements to provide an engaging and sexual experience for both of you.

Besides, every movement you make on Pearl 2 will cause your partners Onyx 2 to contract so they can feel you in real time making the experience intimate.

The biggest drawback about this toy is that my man said the stimulation from Onyx 2 is a bit not on the point. It’s not bad, but he said he preferred Max by Lovense. From my side, I think Pearl 2 performed alright. The vibration is great, but the girth of the vibrator is narrower than what I used to use. So, if you prefer a thick penis, Pearl 2 might not be the best option for you.

✔️Price: Click here to check prices and availability

✔️For more information about NORA & MAX or other LDR toys, click here to access the official Lovense website!

👉🏽Click here to learn more or order ONYX2 & PEARL2 (Official Store)

HOW TO CHOOSE THE BEST LONG DISTANCE SEX TOYS?

The lust and demands from a relationship are now way different from what it was even a decade back. So, when it’s your turn to make your LDR guy/girl happy, keep no stones unturned.

Always choose a sultry and sensational gift that your lover can crave all season through. Let’s face it, nothing could be more important than a real orgasm for the long distance spouses.

In fact, virtual intercourse could play a real catalyst to keep your compatibility quotient steady with your partner. So, pick a sex toy and get ready to say goodbye to your everyday effort to feel close to your partner.

However, picking one from the palette might not be as easy as it sounds. Also, each model packs quite a punch in terms of its larger-than-life features.

lush 2 discreet

So, let’s look at the 6 following tips to help you shop smart…

1. Make your choice qualitative than quantitative. There are many competing brands offering myriads of accessories to help you play with your partner in real-time. But make sure to pick only what suits your sexual needs the best.

For example, if you and your love fantasize public play, a good choice would be the Lush 2; However, you two prefer to have some mutual stimulation, Max & Nora would be a better option. So, it’s all up to your taste for the choice :).

2. Only look for sex toys that are pharmaceutical graded and patented. Choose the toys that come with hypoallergenic substance or medical silicon-based material.

Since sex toys are something that direct contact your skin, it’s very important to make sure to avoid toxic material, such as jelly products and toys that contain phthalates.

3. Don’t splurge to an epic buy and do a little market survey. Good quality long-distance tend to be a bit expensive, so make sure to choose your fun toy logically.

Overpaying for ordinary equipment would not only burn holes in your pocket but send your lovemaking spirits crashing. It’s better to read some honest reviews before making your order.

In this blog, I’ve written plenty of reviews on long-distance toys as I was in an LDR myself. These toys include Ambi, Lush, Hush, Sync, Nova, Rave, Vibease, and Smart Lipstick. Feel free to read about them if you are interested ;).

4. Don’t fall for a bounty of features but give more priority to the product quality. To put it more simply, your toy might come packed with a gazillion of attractive features, including Bluetooth compatibility, quick response time, multiple connecting options, vibratory, speed controls, intelligent playback, smart interactivity, advanced sensors, secure network platform, etc.

Think about it? Do you really need that much functions? If yes, Does the toy you choose actually live up to its promises?

5. A few words on the Bluetooth antenna technology of today’s sex toys:  most of the long-distance toys nowadays requires using Bluetooth connection. No matter which brand you use, there’re always some people who say that they incur issues on Bluetooth Connection.

I personally never encountered any Bluetooth issues, maybe it’s because I use popular mobile devices.

Anyhow, it’s impossible to make your choice most perfect and flawless when so many options are available across the global marketplace. Fear not, just pick your toy from a reputed brand and chances are more, that your product will serve your purpose the best possible way.

And if there is still a Bluetooth issue in your sex gizmo, make sure you contact the customer care in no time. Brands like We-vibe and Lovense have really good customer service and there will surely help solve any toy-related issues.

6. Finally, your pick should bring you the best bargain of a lifetime. Also, it must offer you everything needed to be playful, interactive and sex eager with your Bae. So, look inside every feature, program, and accessory before a product finally catches your attention

SEX GAME IDEAS WITH LONG DISTANCE TOYS

ldr couple life

Now, that you have finally managed to get the best sex toy to surprise your long distance lover, be sure to go overboard with the best sex game ideas too. After all, what better way to make the most of your sex toys?

Below is a list of some savory games to entice your partner to play most mischievous. Let’s discuss them one by one now…

1. Play It Intimate

If you have already found a cozy place to release your passion flow, let your partner join you in a virtual masturbating by co-playing it at the same time. Make sure you both use your toys to feel each other’s orgasm and share a moment of sheer intimacy.

Lovense Max and Nora can be a great helper for this game because these two toys can interact with each other. It’s like you two are actually with each other.

2. Sex Updates

Keep your LDR partner posted on a brand new sex move you recently liked across the web or somewhere else. And this is exactly the time to ask your lover pick up the toy, imitate the move and send you a video in real-time. Virtual reality porn gaming has never been easier.

3. Truth or Dare

Now, this is one vintage game you can play with your LDR lover from a safe distance. For example, ask your Bae to confess something about his/her sex life, unwind his/her secret sexual fantasies, or strip, quirk or do something naughty with their sex toys.

4. Down the Memory Lane

Your distant lover has never probably felt more aroused with this prank. This sex game triggers memories of your intimate fun time and helps you recreate them together virtually. Also, make no mistake, to ask your lover to use his/her favorite sex toy and share videos and photos to make more memories.

5. Guess the Body part

This one is the ultimate fun game. Here, you need to take close-up pictures of your sexy body parts and send them to your partner for a wild guess. Don’t forget to offer rewards when your partner wins by playing his/her favorite moves with your sex toy. And when the guesswork fails, just punish your partner by telling him/her to do what you want. The option is all yours.

VERDICT: Let long-distance toys spice up your sex life

Finally, the long-distance sex toys promise a life-changing experience for every millennial couple who face an insane amount of stress, challenges, and yearning of separation in their long-distance relationship.

And if you are the one who’s striving to improve the relationship with his/her LDR partner, these next-gen, feel-good tools could not be a better solution. They can take care of your bespoke sexual needs and keep you posted on every seductive movement of your partner from miles afar.

So, pick one today and keep the fire burning :).

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