Best Ways to Use Vibrator in Sex? (Experience Shared)

by Jane Louis
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There is no reason not to use a vibrator while having sex with your partner.

I remember the first time my partner chanced upon my Battery Operated Boyfriend. I was a bit embarrassed and somewhat wary. A friend of mine recently had a blowout with her boyfriend about her toy chest. In short, it was all because of his insecurities.

Anyway, I lucked out. My partner simply smirked and said, “We’ll play with this later.” And play we did.

Some people think that toys distract from the connection humans share during sex. I dare to disagree. That connection is all about us giving each other pleasure – how we go about it is absolutely up to us.

Bringing a Bob into your together time can take your relationship to the next level. And that’s no matter if you have just met or your relationship has been going strong for 20+ years.

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How to Involve Vibrators in Sex?

The answer to this depends on the type of vibrator and your creativity. There are 7 different types of vibrators, and a couple of them are true multitaskers.

Clitoral vibrators are specially designed to stimulate your magic bean. Unfortunately, a lot of women can’t climax from penetration alone.

Luckily, all women are equipped with an organ whose sole purpose is to give the owner sexual pleasure. And, oh fun, they don’t just vibrate these days – they also caress, flick and rotate.

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G-spot vibrators go straight for the punch line. They target that little bundle of nerves and catapult you into O-town. They are perfect for partners that don’t travel at the same speed. If you were never able to fully enjoy a quickie, add this guy to your warm-up.

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The wand massagers and the bullet vibrators do it all – they can make all your bits do the cha-cha. And they don’t discriminate – boys will love them too.

The only difference is that one of them is more portable. And may come with a remote. And what do we do with a remote control?

We give it to our partner so they can torture us for hours on end. For other ideas, why not watch some Japanese porn? To learn the language, of course.

wand massager

Rabbit vibrators are the reason why many women are fine with being single. But, you can still share the fun with a partner during anal sex.

If the triple stimulation is not enough, you can always use the massage wand on your nipples and go supernova.

Wearable vibrators demand of you to play in a group of two or more. Wear them on your fingers to turn every touch into a lightning bolt. Or turn your partner into a rabbit with a vibrating couple’s ring.

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The latest newcomers are suction vibrators (also know as clit stimulators) that give your clitoris a different sensation. Though, perineum might also want to get some of that action as well.

Any of these bad boys are great companions during foreplay. Maybe even hours of exploring our bodies and teasing our partners.

Adding the sensation upon a sensation until we are ready to explode into fireworks of pure need and passion.

Or maybe taking that pleasure that we give each other and launching it into another dimension altogether.

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Best Sex Positions (With Vibrators)

Is breathing a position? You can go through the whole Kama Sutra if you want, and you will find a way to bring your new favorite toy to the party.

But, if playing with the vibrators is the party, there are a few gadgets that can take the whole thing to the next level.

Something like the Liberator Wedge, perhaps. It’s called a “serving platter” for a reason. Your body can be positioned perfectly for oral sex, deeper penetration, and playing with sex toys.

A tool like this also allows you to stay in a position, so your partner can take their time when teasing and torturing you.

There is also the Liberator Ramp – a larger sex pillow that can be used alone or in combination with the Wedge to access more positions.

sex pillow position

And some of your favorite positions are better with a vibrator.

Reverse cowgirl and reverse chair both include the woman on top, riding the partner with her back turned to them.

In this case, use a clitoral or a bullet vibrator to stimulate the clitoris. In the reverse chair, your partner has better access to your nipples, and they can use a massage wand to tease them.

Spooning is brilliant for building intimacy – there is very little space for quick movements and your partner’s lips are whispering in your ear all the dirty things they will do to you.

You can leave yourself at the mercy of your partner by giving them a toy they can use on you.

If 69 is your favorite number, both you and your partner can use finger vibrators to give each other more pleasure.

Or if you like to test the durability of your furniture with a zealous round of doggy style, place a vibrator between you and said piece of furniture for extra clitoral stimulation.

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How to Use Vibrators During Foreplay?

Vibrators can be a rockstar for foreplay, especially for women. Most of the women require at least 15 mins of foreplay to get fully aroused.

Cuddling, caressing, licking, and dirty talks can all play a role during foreplay; however, none of them can be as powerful as a good vibrator, in my opinion.

Bullet vibrators, such as Lovense Lush or We-vibe Tango are the most ideal for wakening women’s sensations and get them wet.

Gently stroke the vibrator on the clitoris and some moan will leak out immediately. Instead of focusing on one point, it’s better to go on and off. Remember, the goal is to tease, not to let her come too fast!

Wand massagers are another amazing toy for foreplay. It not only can relax the muscles but also a great stimulator for nipples.

Close your eyes and feel the vibration travels through the nipples to your entire body. Your clitoris will resonant with your nipples and this sensation will make you wet… Oh, so wet!

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Masturbate with Vibrators

Vibrators are our best pal during masturbation. It’s possible to have bad sex with a man, but it’s impossible to be disappointed by a vibrator!

My favorite toy for private fun is Lovense Lush, it’s a very versatile egg vibrator that can be controlled by a free app. Thanks to the app, I can use the toy hand freely when inserting it to stimulator the G-spot.

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As for clit stimulation, it’s even more divine. Not only can you create numerous vibration patterns, but it’s also possible to sync the vibration with any sounds and songs and let it vibe by itself.

Sometimes, it’s also fun to let your BF take the control from a distance… actually, as long as there is the internet, your bf can control your Lush from anywhere.

You can even go for a walk while having the Lush inserted in your vagina. Meanwhile, your bf surprises you with unexpected vibrations.

Another amazing toy masturbation is Womanizer Duo. It’s a dual vibrator that can suck your clit while stimulating your G-spot. Yes, it’s not a simple vibration. The clit head can wrap your clit and mimicking suction sensation, which is OMG!

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To be honest, whenever I use a clit sucking vibrator, I can come within 5 minutes. They are just too damn good!

My BF forbidden me from use clit stimulator when he’s around… I am pretty sure he’s just feeling challenged :P.

Oral Sex With Vibrators

While our mouths and tongues can deliver intense pleasure, they are limited in the ways they do it. Introducing another sensation with vibrators achieves more than our bodies can no matter the effort or enthusiasm.

While the mouth is fully dedicated to the clitoris, a vibrator can stimulate the labia, mons, the G-spot, or the nipples. Or all four for a complete knockout experience.

A man might enjoy a light vibrating stimulation on his testicles or the perineum. Guys with very sensitive nipples will lose it if they have two bullet vibrators taped on them.

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Anal Sex With Vibrators

This is an exciting world and full of options for him and her.

Men who enjoy some prostate play have a few interesting toys they can play with. Most popular is the Finger – a vibrator that mimics the shape and size of a human finger, but does more.

To ladies who are yet to dip their toes into these waters, vibrators can play a vital role in making their first experience wonderful. Those who already relish in anal sex will gain even more pleasure.

Though all vibrators can enhance the experience, the rabbit and the G-spot vibrator go a step further. The double penetration will overpower your senses, while the vibration will start fireworks in every nerve in your body.

Your partner’s enjoyment will also be on another level from both the physical presence and the sensations from the toy.

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Lesbian Sex with Vibrators

Eh, all of the above with double the fun?

All joking aside, a good vibrator or three can intensify lesbian sex. A woman is a best-trained person to pleasure another woman, so it makes sense that she will also know how to use toys for maximum satisfaction.

A rabbit or a G-spot vibrator to the rescue. Capes and all! They can supplement the penetration sensation… exclamation?

You can check out other toys that are designed for the girl on girl lovin’ – mostly vibrating dual dildos and strap-ons. They work the same way your old guys do, just better.

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Verdict

As long as you and your partner(s) are up for it, Mr. Bob can be a great addition to your bedroom gymnastics. He won’t complain if you ask him to join you in the bathroom or the hallway as well! Ask him first about the kitchen – everyone has their limits.

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