8 Best VR Masturbators of 2023 & How I Enjoy Interactive Sex Toys

The world of VR sex toys is constantly evolving. There are so many innovative new VR male strokers and vibrators , and more come out every day.

So, how do you decide where to start? How do you keep from wasting money trying out ineffective sex toy for yourself?

Fortunately, I’ve tested many smart masturbators for you and compiled a list of the very best interactive sex toys.

In this review, I am also going to share information about their pros, cons, and who they are best suited for so that you can stop worrying about pleasing your wallet and begin pleasing yourself.

Selecting an adult toy is a deeply personal experience. Hopefully, this article will give you the facts you need to choose a virtual sex masturbator that suits you.

What Are VR Masturbators?

Before I get into the best VR porn sex toys, let’s talk about what a VR masturbator is.

The VR stands for virtual reality, an environment-generated setting designed to simulate the real world.

These masturbators combine VR technology with traditional sex toys to give you a unique interactive pleasure experience.

Unlike a regular sex toy, VR masturbators are "smart" and they provide you a fully-immersive “real” experience.

They allow you to experience the sensations of having a sexual encounter with a remote participant.

This means that you can spend time with your favorite porn star, a fictional character, or just someone that will pay attention to you and your needs.

The interpersonal quality of these toys sets VR masturbators apart from your typical male sex toy.

They do their best to replicate the experience of being intimate with another person.

It’s an excellent option for people who feel lonely masturbating alone, but even couples can benefit from a virtual sex masturbator.

8 Best Interactive VR Masturbators

1. The Handy: Best For VR Porn

The Handy is an extremely powerful and customizable VR fleshlight. It can get up to an insane rate of 400mm/s.

This toy is relatively light-weighted and is 10.5” (26.7 cm) in length and 2.75” (7 cm) in diameter.

It comes with a TrueGrip sleeve system made from soft TPE, which goes inside an stretchable sleeve to adjust it to your size.

There are several different Handy sleeves designed to stimulate different types of sex.

I’d recommend using lube to make the glide a bit easier. Also, smaller sleeves with your toy will help prevent you from slipping out accidentally.

The Handy comes equipped with Bluetooth and wifi connectivity, which allows you to sync your toy with porn videos.

This company partners with content creators such as SexLikeReal, JerkOffGames, and more to create a toy specifically dedicated to VR porn contents.

The Handy comes with a fully programmable interface that allows you to control everything about the device’s movement, including the speed and length of its strokes.

It’s hands-free once you get it going, so you’re able to fully immerse yourself in the experience.

I think nothing feels quite as close to a real blowjob as the Handy.

Plus, the plug-in type of battery lasts long enough for me to really enjoy a prolonged session with my partner.

Because of this feature, I’d recommend the Handy to people trying to maintain their sex life in a long-distance relationship.

The Handy does need to be plugged in and is relatively expensive, though that is still a low price for the high-end stroker market.

Pros:

• Dual-core processor is extremely powerful
• Stroke speed can go up to 400 times/s (super fast!)
• One size fits all as the sleeve is very adjustable 
• Sleeve is removable for customization
• Easy cleaning 
• Stable Bluetooth and WiFi compatible
• Able to be synced to videos from the many porn websites

Cons:

• Must be plugged into a socket
• May experience connection issues
• Not entirely hands-free
• Can be loud

2. Kiiroo Keon: Best Overall with Pussy-looking Sleeve

The Kiiroo Keon is one of the best VR male sex toys I've used, for both sensation and function.

It connects to KIIROO Feel Technology through the FeelConnect app to enable toys and webcams.

With the FeelConnect app, you can connect the Keon to any other Kiiroo toy for interactive couple sex and my favorite paired model is the Pearl 2!

Pearl 2 is a powerful G-spot vibrator. When my gf and I are apart, we tend to connect our toys and have virtual sex. 

My favorite thing about this toy is its Interactive Penis Stroker. With the swipe of a finger, you can control how the toy moves on different sections of your penis.

The interactive features don’t end there. There’s also something called Clap Control which allows you to sync the device’s strokes with sounds at a specific volume, like tapping a song’s beat, to create a unique and pleasurable experience.

Kiiroo partners with creators like FeelMe.com to create hours of content for you to enjoy. The devices are also VR compatible.

The high-tech options that come with this device do make it a more expensive choice.

Their sleeves are made from TPE and designed to be as realistic as possible, making them feel incredible.

Unfortunately, that also makes it a pain to clean up. The ridges in the sleeve make it tricky to clean fully, but if you don’t thoroughly clean your toy, it may grow mold.

They do sell cleaners on their website that are safe for their toys.

The Kiiroo Keon is perfect if you want a powerful toy that can work with large strokes and feels and acts like a fleshlight.

The interactive experience is perfect for long-distance partners or feeling as though you are with someone in real-time.

I admit that this toy is a bit heavy (almost 4 pound/1.8 kg), however the weight plus the fleshlight type of sleeve makes the experience amazingly realistic. 

I use this one when I need a quick and fast experience. The strokes are short but fast and intense, guaranteed to get me where I need to go in a few minutes.

Pros:

• Very realistic
• Works with interactive VR
• Works with fleshlights
• Can be used hands-free
• Different modes and four-speed options
• It’s highly interactive

Cons:

• Expensive
• Hard to travel with because of its weight
• Takes time to clean

3. Fleshlight Universal Launch: Best Manual Masturbator

The Fleshlight Universal Launch is massive, so it’s not ideal for travel.

It’s pretty simple to use, with four buttons that control the toy’s power, position, stroke speed, and stroke length.

The Fleshlight Universal Launch does not come equipped with interactive features, but if you want a manual masturbator that’s easy to use, you’ll love it.

It’s very powerful, with a top stroke speed of 250 strokes per minute.

You can add many variations to your strokes; the device has a great stroke length, three positions, and adjustable speed.

Its charge time is 1.5 hours, but it can be used while charging.

Some of the device’s ergonomic features include handles and a smartphone mount.

The device doesn’t include a fleshlight, so you may have to add that to its original price tag.

Please note that this masturbator is ONLY compatible with standard-sized fleshlight instead of every single sleeves, so you will have to do some research to make sure you get one that meets the specs.

Below are the list of Fleshlight sleeves that can be used on this machine:

• Fleshlight Go
• Fleshlight Ice
• Fleshlight Turbo
• Stamina Training Unit
• Original Fleshlight
• Sex in a Can
• Fleshlight Vibro
• ALL Fleshjack Boys
• ALL Fleshlight Girls

Setting up the device is pretty straightforward. You only need to insert the fleshlight into the device’s loop. Here’s a pro tip: use extra lube.

If you already own some fleshlights and aren’t looking for an in-depth interactive VR experience, I’d recommend it for its power and simplicity.

I do find that it takes a bit to get used to the handles. I also personally prefer a headset to a phone screen, and I do enjoy interactive masturbators.

However, if you want something with a phone mount, I think this one gives the best experience, especially considering I can swap out the sleeves.

Pros: 

• Easy to use
• Ergonomic
• Able to be used while charging
• Three pleasure zones
• Feels super realistic
• Multiple fleshlight sleeves to choose from

Cons:

• No remote or interactive features
• Not waterproof
• Can be bulky

4. Lovense Max 2: Best for Couples

The Lovense Max 2 is as sleek as it’s powerful. It’s the perfect option if you’re looking for an easily concealable VR blowjob machine.

It only weighs 1.65 lbs (748.4 g) and has a 6.8” (17.3 cm) sleeve, so it’s pretty easy to travel with.

It has an incredible hyper-realistic sleeve made from a skin-like hypoallergenic material.

The sleeves are very pliable, but they’re also highly ridged to give you a more realistic feel.

I loved using this toy’s incredible suction, which is controlled through an adjustable air vent.

It’s VR compatible and allows you to control your VR fleshlight with your smartphone so someone else can also manage your device from miles away.

This toy’s most unique feature is that it allows you to have long-distance sex with other partners.

It syncs with other toys such as the Nora and reacts to their movement, making it ideal for feeling connected with your partner.

The Max 2 has its own VR game called the MirrorLife and works with VR headsets such as the Oculus and Odyssey to give you the best experience.

If you already have some virtual reality equipment, this is a great addition to your pre-existing setup.

I’d recommend the toy to someone who isn’t looking for something hyper-realistic and doesn’t mind a bit of noise.

with a price tag for less than $100, it’s also one of the more affordable options.

While this one isn’t my personal favorite, it’s great for when I want my SO to control things.

She picks the VR video and adjusts the suction for a noisy but fun time!

Pros:

• Works for most penis sizes
• Excellent suctional vibration and 260 contractions
• Plenty of settings
• Connects to other toys for long-distance play
• Relatively affordable
• Rechargeable

Cons:

• Hard to clean
• Loud
• Unrealistic design
• Vagina sleeve not included

5. Hot Octopuss Solo Interactive: Best Vibrating Guybrator™

Don’t let the small size fool you; the Hot Octopuss Solo interactive is incredibly powerful.

It’s a collaboration piece between Kiiroo and Hot Octopuss, two companies that make some of the best interactive sex toys on the market.

The palm-sized vibrator has 9 different intensity levels and 6 different frequency patterns.

It has a unique TURBO button that can set you to the moon in one press.

It’s also fully waterproof, perfect for shower play and cleanup. Unlike a typical vibrator, this VR adult toy doesn’t buzz.

Instead, the pulses oscillate, which gives a more intense and realistic feel.

It’s an interactive porn toy and, like the Keon, connects to the FeelConnect app. The toy syncs to porn and doesn’t move.

Instead, the intensity of the toy’s vibrations change as you go. The app has a library of over 4000+ videos for you to choose from. 

The toy features a soft silicone material that comfortably hugs your penis. You can get a hands-free orgasm with the vibrations, or manually stroke it up and down.

If you’ve tried male vibrators before, like them, and have no issues with the lack of automatic stroking, spending more than $150 on this toy may be worth it.

And, as a partnership between two powerhouse companies, you know that this technology is top-of-the-line.

I love that this toy can be used no matter when I am flaccid or erect. 

While it has one of the strongest vibrations, it also has a naturalistic feel that works perfectly with a VR headset.

Pros:

• Very strong vibration
• Strong and unique TURBO function
• Can be used either erect or flaccid
• Relatively quiet
• Feels very realistic
• Easy to clean
• Easy to hide and travel with
• Completely waterproof
• Rechargeable

Cons:

• No automatic stroking
• Vibration patterns aren’t saveable
• Low battery life

6. Kiiroo Onyx+ : Best For Travel

Bigger isn’t always better! The Kiiroo Onyx+ is a powerful, relatively lightweight VR adult toy that’s the perfect addition to your next vacation. 

Like all Kiiroo products, it can be synced with a partner’s toy for a truly interactive experience via the FeelConnect app. 

Fleshlight’s SuperSkin material makes up the sleeve, which means that it feels amazing and hyperrealistic, and is super easy to clean.

The inside has ten contracting rings to mimic sexual sensations. 

The internal length is 6.5” (16.5 cm), and the diameter is 1.5” (3.8 cm), which might pose a problem if you have a larger penis.

You can connect this device with VR Google to make you move in time with your porn.

It’s also compatible with Kiiroo apps like FeelConnect and FeelShare to automate how you want your virtual masturbator to stroke.

I’d recommend the Kiiroo Onyx + to someone who needs a quiet, discrete toy or someone looking for a toy they can take on the go with them.

While the sleeve it comes with is wonderful, it’s not interchangeable with other types, so those who like a variety of sleeve options should look elsewhere.

While I find this one isn’t quite long enough for me to fully penetrate, when I need to be discrete, it’s my preferred choice. It’s quiet, and its internal skin feels silky and real.

Pros:

• Quieter than most of the othe masturbators
• Strong contraction
• Syncs with other toys for virtual sex
• Relatively lightweight
• Replaceable sleeves
• VR and Bluetooth compatible
• Provides a full interactive experience

Cons

• Doesn’t fit for very girthy penis
• Recharging your device can take up to six hours
• Not waterproof

7. Lovense Calor: Best Heating Pocket Pussy

The Lovense Calor is a pocket pussy with a self-warming feature for maximum realism. 

Lovense makes their sleeves from comfortable, soft silicone. Its vibrations are customizable, with presetted three vibration levels and four patterns.

It also has a depth control mode that causes it to vibrate more intensely as you lower it onto your penis.

When you connect your VR adult toy with the Lovense Remote app, you gain the ability to customize your vibrations.

For long-distance play, the toy can sync with all of Lovense’s VR software and partnerships.

You also gain access to tons of VR Porn content through their Lovense Media Player.

The Lovense Calor isn’t a hands-free toy, and its sleeve isn’t textured.

If that’s something you’re actively searching for, it may not be your best option.

The toy is completely waterproof, however, which makes cleanup easy.

Sometimes, I actually prefer how the Calor feels compared to the Max 2, especially how the Calor can warm up when vibrating. 

While yes, I have to use my hand to increase the pressure, the skin itself feels more natural than the Max 2, and it has greater depth control.

Pros:

• Lots of features
• Easy to clean and maintain
• Waterproof
• One size fits all
• Unique heating function for a more comfortable experience

Cons:

• Not hands-free
• Sleeve isn’t textured
• Connection may be unstable

8. Kiiroo Titan: Best Vibrating Stroker

The Kiiroo Titan is an insanely powerful virtual sex vibrator. It comes with a whopping nine vibrating motors and various modes to simulate various sex acts.

There are three sleeve options; one to simulate anal sex, one to simulate vaginal sex, and one to improve your endurance.

All sleeves use a comfortable TPE and rubber mix.

To get the most out of your Kiiroo Titan, I recommend getting a smartphone-based VR headset.

Note that the toy is not compatible with Oculus headsets.

It is compatible with the FeelConnect App to allow you or your partner to control your device remotely, but you’ll have to add some tech gear to your shopping list for the full experience.

The toy is easy to clean, but it is a vibrator, not a manual stroker.

In addition, it only runs for around 30-40 minutes but can take three and a half hours to fully charge.

If you don’t like vibrators or prefer longer sessions, this toy isn’t for you.

This is my go-to toy when I’m in the mood for a long session. If I’ve had a hard week at work, come Friday night, I put this on and enjoy how it can simulate vaginal and anal sex, all in one session.

Pros:

• Vibrations are intense
• Removable textured sleeve
• Provides immersive stroking experience
• Can sync with Fuse female vibrators for virtual sex
• Can connect to 4,000+ VR or 2D interactive videos
• Relatively Lightweighted

Cons:

• Battery life isn’t the best
• No stroke features
• Not waterproof
• Replacing and cleaning sleeves can be tricky

How To Use VR Masturbators?

In my experience, using a VR masturbator is an incredible experience. It works best when you have a stable internet connection to prevent lagging.

There is a vast amount of VR porn on the internet, so if you use the right keywords, then you’ll be able to find a video for any of your kinks.

For instance, if you want to find BDSM VR porn, you would use all of those as keywords, or even specific things like “domme VR porn” or “mistress slave VR porn.”

Using a VR sex stroker with your partner is also a great way to maintain intimacy in long-distance relationships.

Combining it with a phone call or video call can elevate your sexts to new heights.

The best positions to use your VR masturbator depend on the model.

Models like the Fleshlight Universal Launch are perfect for missionaries, but I enjoyed using Hot Octopuss Solo Interactive while laying down.

It’s all matter of preference.

Final Verdict

After trying out these smart toys, I can say that each of them has something special to offer.

As they all have different features (size, sensations, interactive platforms, etc.),  finding which virtual sex masturbator works best for you can be a bit challenging.

Hope this article provided you somes useful insights about how to choose VR sex toy that fits your needs, and you'll be able to begin your VR journey with just a stroke of your finger.